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Introspection

It’s a long drive back to Nashville…

but we made it in one piece. Well, two pieces, I suppose, counting me and Karsten separately. I’m completely exhausted. Glad to be home, but have already cried twice tonight. I’m going to try going back to work on Monday.

Kate ONeill November 12, 2005 Dad, Grief 8 Comments Read more

When at last you reach the end, turn around and start again

When your cell phone rings at 2:35 AM, you can be sure it’s a call you wish you didn’t have to take. I marveled at how calm my mother managed to sound as she said, “Your father passed.” I took

Kate ONeill November 5, 2005February 5, 2015 Dad, Family, Grief, Introspection 39 Comments Read more

Two updates

First, the Dad update: well, there’s not much new to say, actually. He’s been exhibiting the signs of active death for weeks now, such as picking at his bedclothes, reaching out into the empty air in front of him, increased

Kate ONeill November 3, 2005February 6, 2015 Status Reports 10 Comments Read more

Drawing to a close

So I guess I haven’t posted in a while. It’s not for lack of stuff to write. In fact, I should probably be journaling like crazy through all of this because, as I explained to over the phone a few

Kate ONeill October 18, 2005February 5, 2015 Dad, Grief, Status Reports 24 Comments Read more

Heard of the “Jennings effect”?

Apparently, smoking cessation programs all across the USA are experiencing higher than normal volumes of phone calls and involvement from people who want to quit smoking in the wake of Peter Jennings’ death from lung cancer. Yes, we’re obsessed with

Kate ONeill August 18, 2005February 5, 2015 Introspection 11 Comments Read more

The passing of the pope

I’m not going to say negative things about the late pope, but I will say, as I was telling Karsten, that he’s the reason I’m not Catholic anymore. I was raised in a devoutly Catholic household, and I was an

Kate ONeill April 3, 2005February 6, 2015 Belief & Non-Belief 2 Comments Read more

Life is surreal. (“How real is it?”)

First, sincere thanks to everyone who commented on my last post to express their sympathy for the loss of Karsten’s mother. I have let him know that so many of you gave condolences, and he’s very thankful, as am I.

Kate ONeill March 17, 2005February 6, 2015 Grief, Uncategorized 6 Comments Read more

Sad news about Karsten’s mother

Karsten found out a few hours ago that his mother died today. She hadn’t been sick, but in the last week she was hospitalized after coughing up blood and other severe symptoms. We still don’t have all the details about

Kate ONeill March 15, 2005February 6, 2015 Grief, Uncategorized 37 Comments Read more

The year in review

Borrowed from and many others; edited for stuff I care about answering. I linked to a lot of stuff throughout; my apologies if any links lead to where you, dear reader, cannot follow. Review of 2004 What did you do

Kate ONeill December 15, 2004February 6, 2015 Cats, Managing Money, Running & Exercise, Status Reports, Travel & Places, Work, Writing Songs 2 Comments Read more

Why my dad is so great, #1,983,284,393

Ever since my dad started pressuring me to go to this past weekend’s family wedding in Baltimore — and the pressure started back in August — I’ve been meaning to dig out my saved copy of this email exchange and

Kate ONeill October 20, 2004 Belief & Non-Belief, Bi/Sexuality, Dad, Family, Grief 30 Comments Read more
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